Parent Dreams … Olympic or OtherwisePosted: February 13, 2014
Does it happen to you every few years?
The Olympics return …
A deep wish, a poignant pull, an unfulfilled dream. Whether you actually wanted to be an Olympian or not doesn’t matter. Simply watching the athletes can stir memories of ANY dreams you did not pursue.
Activities quit, efforts abandoned, wishes that never made it to a To Do list …
So then …with your kids nestled under your arm, what do you do? Keep your thoughts to yourself, or share them?
From childhood through your teens into adulthood, countless dreams have drifted across your mind and spirit. Adventures you’ve considered and tabled, visions you’ve pursued and prospered by. You have signed up and succeeded, envisioned and ventured, bailed before you failed, or left a dream lie dormant.
Your children could benefit from hearing about your dreams, the whats and whys, and what you think about them today.
Did you want to be a skier, a dancer, a skater, a ballplayer? A speaker, an inventor, an author, a cook? Did you sign up, or not sign up? Did you try and fail? Did you stay discouraged or try again? Were you glad you persisted, or more glad you kept searching elsewhere for your genuine talent? Did someone believe in you when you didn’t? Do you have regrets? How do you feel about your past coping with a challenge — the risky challenge of pursuing something you dearly want, despite the struggle and strain?
Share your “Olympic” thoughts with your children to connect with them and build their resilience to cope. Sharing your coping tales can provide a realistic model of the many shades of color between success & failure. Resilience … this is how it happens.
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